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Saturday, August 29, 2009
cosmetic surgery in India
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Friday, August 14, 2009
india reborn 2
Oh my god. Seriously. If this is what a local millionaire actually thinks, despite the glaring face of poverty everywhere you turn in India, no wonder India has one of the worse levels of poverty in the world. I'm horrified that he could be so callous and ignorant of the problems in his nation to believe such a thing or so willing to deny any responsibility to help that he completely denies awareness of the issue in order to save face. And I honestly find myself hard pressed to believe the former so am convinced that it all about saving face and denying responsibility.
That said, I really have enjoyed the segments that I've seen in the series. The documentary does a good job showing the different sides of India, from poverty to wealth, from indifference to action. It's very interesting and I'd highly recommend it. The show makes you think about just how divided traditional India is from modern India and the consequences and challenges this raises in the nation.
Friday, August 7, 2009
india reborn
The show went on to address her response to the poverty around her, the Bollywood films she drew her inspiration from, and the attitude of one of the guards who work for her family in regards to his own 4 year daughter's perspective marriage. The contrast was shocking, albeit expected. For all that I struggle with the dichotomy between my modern values and the expectations of a conservative family, the pressures that I allow myself to get worked up about are nothing compared to the idea of marrying a total stranger, in a wedding pageant that focuses on appearance for the sake of the community. Despite some of the similarities that I tend to scorn, I know that if I'm truly honest about it, my woes are based more on my frustration over not getting things my way than being oppressed by convention. No one was looking to marry me off when I was 4....
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Thursday, July 2, 2009
gay rights in India
I'm sure that social resistance will continue and that even though homosexuality will still be viewed as a crime, the fact that it can no longer be punished by law is a great start. Change doesn't always come quickly, but it comes nonetheless.
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Tuesday, June 2, 2009
Kamala Das

If you don't know her poetry, you should. (click photo for an interesting article)
Kamala Das was an Indian poet who wrote racy, erotic, feminist poetry. She converted to Islam, lived through Partition, and was quite the shit-disturbing, controversial figure!
The Looking Glass
by Kamala Das
Getting a man to love you is easy
Only be honest about your wants as
Woman. Stand nude before the glass with him
So that he sees himself the stronger one
And believes it so, and you so much more
Softer, younger, lovelier. Admit your
Admiration. Notice the perfection
Of his limbs, his eyes reddening under
The shower, the shy walk across the bathroom floor,
Dropping towels, and the jerky way he
Urinates. All the fond details that make
Him male and your only man. Gift him all,
Gift him what makes you woman, the scent of
Long hair, the musk of sweat between the breasts,
The warm shock of menstrual blood, and all your
Endless female hungers. Oh yes, getting
A man to love is easy, but living
Without him afterwards may have to be
Faced. A living without life when you move
Around, meeting strangers, with your eyes that
Gave up their search, with ears that hear only
His last voice calling out your name and your
Body which once under his touch had gleamed
Like burnished brass, now drab and destitute.
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Thursday, May 7, 2009
Slumdog Controversy

Slumdog Millionaire. Have you seen it? You should. Even if you're not a huge Indiaphile like me, it's a great movie. It won Oscars, acclaim, media attention, Indian backlash, stirred up an entire controversy over accuracy and voice appropriation. And now, if you haven't heard it already, it is started a media blitz on the issue of the father of one the child actress trying to sell his daughter for $300 000. This article brought the continued controversy to my attention (I'd heard it before, but this one made me think about some of the additional consequences behind the debate).
While I applaud Danny Boyle for having looked after the child actress' education, recent media attention has started questioning how well the film is actually providing for the young stars from Mumbai.
I obviously don't have an answer to this question. However, I wonder how much can be done without overwhelming the family. I mean, if you move them to a better home, will they be alienated from the world they know? What if they stay in the same area but seem to possess more wealth, how will that impact their peers looking to them for help? For that matter, how will it impact them even if they move but their peers know where they've moved? In a group where there is so little, would giving them the profits directly actually lead to more harm than good? But then again, who are we to dictate how the money is spent? I'm sure that all of these issues and more were taken into consideration when they were paying the young stars.
At the end of the day, I don't know if there really is a perfect solution but I'm hard pressed to believe that the father would actually want to sell the daughter that has just provided him with riches beyond what were previously known. Particularly since doing so would ensure that he would lose the continued support to be gained from the measures put in place to take care of the young star.
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Thursday, April 9, 2009
Sunday, April 5, 2009
The Silent Raga

The Silent Raga centers around two sisters, Janaki and Mallika, from a conservative middle class Brahmin family and the events that leads to their divison and reunion. When their mother dies, Janaki is pulled out of school, much to her dismay, in order to tend her father's house until a suitable husband can be found for her. Janaki, a gifted veena player, submits to her father's will. Although she is essentially imprisoned by convention, she continues to develop as a musician, purposely sabotages most of her proposals and focuses on her sister's well-being and education. The bonds between the two sisters are strong and Janaki essentially becomes both Mallika's sister and mother. Janaki's two driving motives are music and Mallika.
The story opens with present day Janaki reminiscing about the past and then switches to Mallika questioning Janaki's return after 10 years of absence. The sisters quickly reveal their present situations, Janaki has married a famous Muslim actor, thus eschewing traditional caste values and Mallika has become her father's caretaker (although he is in an asylum) and works in Madras. Through a series of sometimes deft and other times awkward switches between sisters and past and present moments, the story of Janaki's escape (or from Mallika's perspective, betrayal) unfolds. Both of the sisters' narratives are told not only in relation to their sisterly bond, but also focus on their relationships with their father, or lack thereof. The story , although primarily juxtaposing Janaki's self-sacrifice and ensuing guilt with Mallika's resentment and anger over her abandonment, also tells the tale of each girl becoming aware of their father's selfish and hypocritical ways.
The story is well told and engaging; however, Mallika's anger feels somewhat misplaced for most of the story, as if she is completely unaware of what her sister gave up for her despite her claims of being able to read the unspoken language of people. Of the two characters, Janaki is the more compelling because Mallika`s tale feels naive and stunted, which was probably intentional. All of Mallika`s anger and resentment works to some extent until their eventual reunion when she goes from a to b without much effort. There are elements in the story that clearly signal the book as being the author`s first: the shifts between narrative voices, the way music is meant to work as a leitmotif in the novel, and the novel`s resolution.
Of those three elements, all are forgivable and easily overlooked except for the ending. All of the nicely developed imagery, unspoken tensions, and finely expressed sense of powerlessness and frustration are undercut by the fact that the conclusion comes about too quickly and the emotional resolution is too simple. The author has taken us on this long voyage to get to this moment, this is to some extent the overt point of the novel, the driving force behind the tale, and it fails because it feels more like adolescent wish fulfillment than well crafted prose. As first novels go, this is a well done novel, but it is clearly identifiable as a first novel.
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